Sharp thinking..




I recently have finished watching J-Drama, titled "Kurosagi"..Well, a nice drama bout swindling and mind-battling, its about Kurosaki, Kurosaki is a young man whose family was destroyed by swindlers. Despite that, Kurosaki grows up to become a con artist known as Kurosagi. As Kurosagi, he swindles other con artists and returns the money to the original victim. He works with the master swindler Katsuragi Toshio even though Toshio had a hand in the destruction of Kurosaki’s family. Kurosaki's life begins to change when he meets Yoshikawa Tsurara, a young law student who disapproves of his disrespect of the law. Can she persuade Kurosaki to give up swindling and his quest for revenge? 



Okay i didn't want to teach all of you to be a swindler, the real thing i want to talk here, is the way the story reveal about Kurosagi, it tells that Kurosagi is a very sharp and intelligent guy, you see, he managed to cheat a cheater, swindle a swindler, got what i mean?  His brain-is-sharp-and-quick-to-think-any-solution..he truly cannot cheat others if his brain didn't be sharper than them, right?



Why we all cannot be like this? why we must all follow what others tell us, why cannot we "think out of box"? Train your brain please..Do think of something wisely, deeply, don't be a follower, be a researcher.. research anything that been told to you, anything that been put upon you., 

Have a "plan behind a plan" thats mean, you can always be happy for anything that happen to you, anything that can be a "backup" if something you do is not turning out right, in studying, if you seems that the way you study cannot give you good result, change your way, change your study skills..don't ever give up easily..



I seldom heard that when someone fail certain subject, or doesn't get good result as they planned, they seems to give up, "im not a good student" "im not a clever" NO...!!! that is wrong..!!!! Change your way of thinking..

thats all for today,,

hehehe...

Parents blessing..





Remember..
Whatever we do, no matter how hard we study, how clever and great we are in studying, don't forget to get our parents blessing, Their blessing in our life is more meaningful than any other gold or treasure. Please, don't forget our parents, not a single minutes. Me, as i can say, never forget my parents, peace be to god Allah for His blessing in me, and i always pray for my parents healthiness  and God's bless upon them. 






You know, at Rasulullah's time, when Rasulullah ask his Sahabat ( God bless on them ) to go for Jihad to defend their Islam from their enemy, all the sahabat answer Rasulullah's call with high spirit and jihad in them, and this include a young boy. But suprisingly for the young boy, Rasulullah stop him, after three time of attemting to join the jihad call, Rasulullah still stop him. So the boy ask Rasulullah why, and Rasulullah said that does he ask for his parents blessing or not? He said that he did not ask from them, so Rasulullah told him that parents blessing is important even to go jihad. 






So my friend, if jihad also we must ask for our parents blessing, what about this studying life of us? So ask for your parents to pray for you, and insyaAllah you will be successful in your studying.


When you are feeling down...





When you are feeling too down..Its soo hard right?Its like what we do is all wrong. And you feel this world is against you, what did you'll do?


-eat and eat and eat, coz eating can release your sadness?
-go to a top of a hill and shout with your loudest voice "WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA....!!!!"?
-cal a fren, tell him/her your problem while eating at a mamak stall?
-Go out to the mall and shopping and shopping till you fell so happy?
-Read the Quran ( i'm sure not many are doing this?)?\


didn't you feel that why these sad things must happen in our life? Don't you felt that should your life be happy always?






Well fellas, don't be so sad for what happening to you. Heres my advice, just take what are happening to you as SUGAR. why i said sugar?






Here i got the simpleST ANALOGY for you all:


Sugar is important to any drinks and food, without sugar our drinks and food will taste really sucks.(phewww...!!) right?
So lets say you want to make a glass of tea, you'll need sugar right?
Too many sugar yu put and your tea will be soooooooo sweeet that it hurts your throat..
Less sugar you put in and be preapred to throw away the tea..becasue its so lame..
so thats it..


our life is = a glass of tea
sadness  = sugar


too many sadness can harm our life, but without it our life will be soo lame..trust me, sometimes this sadness things can make us even more stronger, more matured and dedicated to continue our life.,


So be grateful for what our life have gone through, its always good that Allah fate on us, only the time will show us WHEN will it BENEFITS us,,



~~All you people can't you see, can't you see~~
How your love's affecting our reality
Every time we're down
You can make it right
~~And that makes you LARGER THAN LIFE ~~

Don't confuse fame with succes...





"Don't confuse fame with succes, Tamer Hosney is one, Bill Gates is the other.."


This is the quote i found really interesting from my friend(and senior) blog..It does struck me in the Head ( Bang !!!) What are we people can describe about our target of achievement in life? Do we want to be be FAMOUS or SUCCESSFUL? 






- An engineering student will study to success, to be a good engineer or to get great high profile project ?
- A medic student studied medical, to be a good doctor to help people or because doctor can earn million of bucks easily?
- A law student who studied law because to be a great lawyer or because lawyer is famous and hot-shot and can be rich?
- A Islamic student studying syariah and usuluddin to become a good USTAZ / USTAZAH to teach islam to themselves and peoples or because this profesion can make you famous and rich with many 'ceramah'?


Sometimes we doesn't really see this two things, fame and success.. sometimes we just want to be something because other people have really achieve in that field, like throw yourself in business because you see that Donald Trumo have become super-duper rich in business, do you can see, that someone want to be famouse like donald trump, not seeing that it is his success that led to his fortune and fame..






So of all what you studied, studied to achieve success first, because i can ensure to you that with success you can be famous.


Superman said "with great power come great responsibilities"

Nobody is born a GENIUS..





"i am not so genius, thats why i will not succeed."
"He is 'pandai' thats why he got top results."
"She got great brain, i doesn't have"


These is among the normal phrases we can hear from many people who seems "jealous" with others people success. Fellas, this thinking-that-everybody else-except-us-is-perfect gotta stop.No offence, but it really damaging our brain.I really hate to hear all this.







Fellas, nobody is born genius, nobody is born with IQ of 400 (super duper genius) and no body is born with successful results as he/she achievement.NO NEVER !!! that kind of thinking is wrong and never can take you further in your life. trust me, i've been there, done that frens !!!


What makes people success or not is what the education program (tarbiyyah) and what they do to preserve it. People who always train and drain their brain seems to have upper hand than people who doesn't. its true really, our BRAIN must be TRAINed so it will not DRAIN.






So stop babbling about others achievement if we-ourselves-doesn't-work -harder-like-them. Blame yourself for your failure, you know, the starting point for anyone achievement starts at he/she own hand,brain and guts to work hard.The rest we return to Allah s.w.t.






chow chincou bou chunlai lin dan lee chong wei..

The more we learn the more we doesn't know..



Anyone agree with me?


The more we learn the more we doesn't know.
Why i said that? because the more we learn something, it will open us to a new dimension (like a star-struck galaxy) that sent us to a whole new galaxy to explore. So, we must begin again from zero. got my idea?


Let us see the analogy, a simple analogy i will give you, to make your brain function fully to its potential.


Step ONE :
You wanted to learn to make cookies, and now you doesn't even know anything or any step to make cookies.






Step TWO:
Now you learn to make cookies, you know what is the ingredients, how the correct step to bake it ( cookies) and how you can decorate it to make it beautiful


Step THREE :
Now you have a new knowledge, that is to bake cookies. you just turn from ZERO to HERO with your new knowledge.But surely you are not satisfied, yes? YOu wanted to learn to bake other cookies,not that one only,right?


Step FOUR:
NOw you understand what i mean,  before you doesn't even bother to learn to bake cookies, suddenly you learn to make it, its suck you to a new dimension, a COOKIES dimension. but suddenly we need to learn more about cookies but we doesn't know, and that is a new DIMENSION to us.


Step FIVE :
no more step laa..hehe..so for the conclusion i hope you understand what i mean, and you know that its a great way to make this newly-improved theory a reality.(what am i writing??) 


okay,chow cincau..



Got to work harder..




Got to work harder
my self of course..


Phew,,thats all i can said pondering that i will sit for my first exam in this Jordan state. Well, of course i am not so mentally and physically ready, but i know there is no better time to start than TODAY.


Why did i put beckham's pic above? it is to show you that even gifted man (in his football world) also have to work hard and train carefully to make sure his potential doesn't gone wasted.


So what about us? 


Even Sun Tzu said in his famously-literated The art of War :
"the one who control the land and 5 elements will win the war"


Hey, from what i seen and understand, it says we can win the land from hard work, not from just relax-and-see-and-be-hopeful.no my friend, thats totally wrong. ~~"What you give you get back"~~ as Scorpion stated in their song. What you give ( means studying, work hard and struggling) is what you will get. ( freedom, magnificent result and of course fame and fortune~i like~ )hehehe..





So. i want to advice myself, i need to work harder, need to stabilize my preparation in this coming exam, you my friend, don't just sit-there-and-relax-and-do-nothing-and-just-facebooking without studying, its up to you to succed or not.


Gotta chow now. pray for me..

A realist no more..



I used to be a realist..
Thinking that all thing will go according to plan.. thinking that this world is just going to be good always..But of course this is not right. We must prepare for the worse, accepting the fate whether its good or bad. I started to make myself prepared, since studying here is NOT AS GOOD AS IN MALAYSIA..get what i mean?


The situation i faced in studying here is not the same as in Malaysia. If you guys in malaysia can relay your pointer on assignment, project paper, presentation, there no such things here. All you can relay is on two tests and one final exam. the rest? its depends on lecturers, or doctors as they are called here..because the (syarat) to become a lecturer in jordan is you must at least have a PHD..i repeat,PHD..no such things as tutor or master lecturer in Arabic State.




Return to the exam things,can you imagine, you saw a DR enter your class, and hoping to get the topic that enter the final exam to study, but suddenly, he said, In its colloquial arab language "min jildin ila jildin" means, from the front page to the end of the book, and this refer to a 300 something 'kitab', to study the whole books in two weeks? wow, i can't imagine that..my first REAL challenges to study here. What a great way to start the life here.


So thats all, i MUST and SHOULD change my MINDSET now,no more be a realist, just try to be a Triumphant,,i don't know what i said just now,,hahaha,.


Okay another day then,pray for me my friends..

ANGRY !!!!



Did you feel like you want to 'eat' someone?


Did you feel like you want to "kill a mosquitoes?"


Did yo feel like you want to "bake a cake and eat it suddenly?"


Did you feel ignorant?


Then you are confirmly ( salah ni,,jg ikut) ANGRY !!!!


lets laugh together...hahahaha...




Friends..


control your angry..


It doesn't matter how and what methods that people make you feel, 


Just be yourself..


Its not wrong to express your angriness but..


Make sure you can control it..


Get what i mean?


Me, myself..when i felt angry,, i just eat and eat and eat..


OMG..how fat i can be..but i don't care..


EATING can release your anger..(not suggested for people who want to control diet..heheheh)


Okeh,,my main point is, Rasulullah (PBUH) once answering a man's question..


The man : Ya Rasulullah, advice me please..
Rasulullah PBUH : Don't be angry..
The man : Then?
And he repeated his question for Rasulullah till 3rd times, Rasulullah still answered :
"Don't be angry"


So...lets us laugh together..hahaha


okay..chow..



Cooking..



Im not so damn good at cooking..

So i like to try2..

Suddenly,,

I felt soooooo confuse what i am cooking..

so..

the dishes looks weird..

hehehe..

Sorry my friend..

My cooking is not so well-served today..

maybe i want to learn fro m my fren..

or from someone who can cooks..

hehehe..


Maassalaamah..

[sharing is wonderful]

hate.to..



i hate to eat

i hate to study

i hate to play

i hate to sleep

i hate to mingle2..

i hate to think..

i hate to hate everything...

i hate to be a hater..

wahahahahaha...

sajer jer..

[sharing is wonderful]

Song : Ihtifal (credit to my law friend)





The prophet said
You cannot turn to Allah
Or gain His love
With anything superior
Than reading the Quran


He also reminded us
I leave two advisors
One which speaks
And the other is silent


One which speaks
Is the Quran
One which is silent
Is remembrance of death


He also said
The best among you
Is he who learns the Quran
And teaches it


Lets sing together..but i don't know how to sing this song..hehehe


[sharing is wonderful]

7 Things to Stop Doing Now on Facebook



7 Things to Stop Doing Now on Facebook



Using a Weak Password
Avoid simple names or words you can find in a dictionary, even with numbers tacked on the end. Instead, mix upper- and lower-case letters, numbers, and symbols. A password should have at least eight characters. One good technique is to insert numbers or symbols in the middle of a word, such as this variant on the word "houses": hO27usEs!



Leaving Your Full Birth Date in Your Profile
It's an ideal target for identity thieves, who could use it to obtain more information about you and potentially gain access to your bank or credit card account. If you've already entered a birth date, go to your profile page and click on the Info tab, then on Edit Information. Under the Basic Information section, choose to show only the month and day or no birthday at all.
Overlooking Useful Privacy Controls
For almost everything in your Facebook profile, you can limit access to only your friends, friends of friends, or yourself. Restrict access to photos, birth date, religious views, and family information, among other things. You can give only certain people or groups access to items such as photos, or block particular people from seeing them. Consider leaving out contact info, such as phone number and address, since you probably don't want anyone to have access to that information anyway.
Posting Your Child's Name in a Caption
Don't use a child's name in photo tags or captions. If someone else does, delete it by clicking on Remove Tag. If your child isn't on Facebook and someone includes his or her name in a caption, ask that person to remove the name.
Mentioning That You'll Be Away From Home
That's like putting a "no one's home" sign on your door. Wait until you get home to tell everyone how awesome your vacation was and be vague about the date of any trip.
Letting Search Engines Find You
To help prevent strangers from accessing your page, go to the Search section of Facebook's privacy controls and select Only Friends for Facebook search results. Be sure the box for public search results isn't checked.
Permitting Youngsters to Use Facebook Unsupervised
Facebook limits its members to ages 13 and over, but children younger than that do use it. If you have a young child or teenager on Facebook, the best way to provide oversight is to become one of their online friends. Use your e-mail address as the contact for their account so that you receive their notifications and monitor their activities. "What they think is nothing can actually be pretty serious," says Charles Pavelites, a supervisory special agent at the Internet Crime Complaint Center. For example, a child who posts the comment "Mom will be home soon, I need to do the dishes" every day at the same time is revealing too much about the parents' regular comings and goings.


Consumer Reports has no relationship with any advertisers on Yahoo!
Copyrighted 2009, Consumers Union of U.S., Inc. All Rights Reserved.

Life's a chess..

Life's a chess..


Didn't we see it?


reffering to my frens post on his fb..HE said life's a chess..


What is chess game?


You make a  move, in order to capture some rook,queen, and others piece..


But the real intention of us is to win the game? to checkmate the king?


Didn't we see it?

We make something,not to get the real thing but to get something else..


We studied, not really to get the knowledge(sambil2 dapat ilmu la)..but to get a good job someday..right?


We buy a car not really coz we need it(sambil2 laa) but to promote it to others..


And many more..


Think wisely for what you are planning..


Don't get checkmate in your life !!



One wrong step..checkmate and your done..


[sharing is wonderful]

Update your brain please !!!

We always go to school..


We always go to University..


Do we think what we learn is enough?




Do we think we have complete ourselve with knowledge?


Upgrade your brain please !!!


Learning in University or class is not enough now..


Now, many ORIENTALISTs have use many ways to divert islam..


The ISRAELIS have use many things to "sesatkan" musleem..


if we just depending on our class knowledge, we are so loser..




Upgrade please..read outside knowledge..


If u an islamic knowledge student, read law books,account books,history books..


If u a law student,read history books,mathematics books,biology books..


If u a medic student,read hadith books,tajwid books,engineering books..


Be international please !!!..


We students must have so-called "added value.."

Love : before or after married?





Finally..the topic that i didn't really have any knowledge in this,
LOVE..


But i think i will try to start writing in this..'
Sharing what i know and what i can give to you friends..


People will fall in love,.
and in islam, its a matter of true love or bad love..
Eternal love of course for Allah,,right?
But heres a question, are we wrong to fall in love?
In islam, its not wrong to fall in love..
But, what important is the way you handle it..
For me,.who also happen to be a human,
I think it is normal to fall in love..
But, make sure you can handle your love..
Make it after-married love, it will be sweeter..






If you happen to fall in love with some one now..
Do know him/her,know their family, habits, or whatsoever..
Make sure its a NORMAL LOVE now.
And make sure you keep your TRUE LOVE for the married life..
InsyaAllah you will be happily ever after..






Its mean, LOVE now, and LOVE later,LOVE forever...




Pray for Allah..


[shairng is wonderful]
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