Parents blessing..

Remember..
Whatever we do, no matter how hard we study, how clever and great we are in studying, don't forget to get our parents blessing, Their blessing in our life is more meaningful than any other gold or treasure. Please, don't forget our parents, not a single minutes. Me, as i can say, never forget my parents, peace be to god Allah for His blessing in me, and i always pray for my parents healthiness  and God's bless upon them. 

You know, at Rasulullah's time, when Rasulullah ask his Sahabat ( God bless on them ) to go for Jihad to defend their Islam from their enemy, all the sahabat answer Rasulullah's call with high spirit and jihad in them, and this include a young boy. But suprisingly for the young boy, Rasulullah stop him, after three time of attemting to join the jihad call, Rasulullah still stop him. So the boy ask Rasulullah why, and Rasulullah said that does he ask for his parents blessing or not? He said that he did not ask from them, so Rasulullah told him that parents blessing is important even to go jihad. 

So my friend, if jihad also we must ask for our parents blessing, what about this studying life of us? So ask for your parents to pray for you, and insyaAllah you will be successful in your studying.

When you are feeling down...

When you are feeling too down..Its soo hard right?Its like what we do is all wrong. And you feel this world is against you, what did you'll do?


-eat and eat and eat, coz eating can release your sadness?
-go to a top of a hill and shout with your loudest voice "WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA....!!!!"?
-cal a fren, tell him/her your problem while eating at a mamak stall?
-Go out to the mall and shopping and shopping till you fell so happy?
-Read the Quran ( i'm sure not many are doing this?)?\


didn't you feel that why these sad things must happen in our life? Don't you felt that should your life be happy always?

Well fellas, don't be so sad for what happening to you. Heres my advice, just take what are happening to you as SUGAR. why i said sugar?

Here i got the simpleST ANALOGY for you all:


Sugar is important to any drinks and food, without sugar our drinks and food will taste really sucks.(phewww...!!) right?
So lets say you want to make a glass of tea, you'll need sugar right?
Too many sugar yu put and your tea will be soooooooo sweeet that it hurts your throat..
Less sugar you put in and be preapred to throw away the tea..becasue its so lame..
so thats it..


our life is = a glass of tea
sadness  = sugar


too many sadness can harm our life, but without it our life will be soo lame..trust me, sometimes this sadness things can make us even more stronger, more matured and dedicated to continue our life.,


So be grateful for what our life have gone through, its always good that Allah fate on us, only the time will show us WHEN will it BENEFITS us,,

~~All you people can't you see, can't you see~~

How your love's affecting our reality

Every time we're down

You can make it right

~~And that makes you LARGER THAN LIFE ~~

Don't confuse fame with succes...

"Don't confuse fame with succes, Tamer Hosney is one, Bill Gates is the other.."


This is the quote i found really interesting from my friend(and senior) blog..It does struck me in the Head ( Bang !!!) What are we people can describe about our target of achievement in life? Do we want to be be FAMOUS or SUCCESSFUL? 

- An engineering student will study to success, to be a good engineer or to get great high profile project ?
- A medic student studied medical, to be a good doctor to help people or because doctor can earn million of bucks easily?
- A law student who studied law because to be a great lawyer or because lawyer is famous and hot-shot and can be rich?
- A Islamic student studying syariah and usuluddin to become a good USTAZ / USTAZAH to teach islam to themselves and peoples or because this profesion can make you famous and rich with many 'ceramah'?


Sometimes we doesn't really see this two things, fame and success.. sometimes we just want to be something because other people have really achieve in that field, like throw yourself in business because you see that Donald Trumo have become super-duper rich in business, do you can see, that someone want to be famouse like donald trump, not seeing that it is his success that led to his fortune and fame..

So of all what you studied, studied to achieve success first, because i can ensure to you that with success you can be famous.


Superman said "with great power come great responsibilities"

Nobody is born a GENIUS..

"i am not so genius, thats why i will not succeed."

"He is 'pandai' thats why he got top results."

"She got great brain, i doesn't have"

These is among the normal phrases we can hear from many people who seems "jealous" with others people success. Fellas, this thinking-that-everybody else-except-us-is-perfect gotta stop.No offence, but it really damaging our brain.I really hate to hear all this.

Fellas, nobody is born genius, nobody is born with IQ of 400 (super duper genius) and no body is born with successful results as he/she achievement.NO NEVER !!! that kind of thinking is wrong and never can take you further in your life. trust me, i've been there, done that frens !!!


What makes people success or not is what the education program (tarbiyyah) and what they do to preserve it. People who always train and drain their brain seems to have upper hand than people who doesn't. its true really, our BRAIN must be TRAINed so it will not DRAIN.

So stop babbling about others achievement if we-ourselves-doesn't-work -harder-like-them. Blame yourself for your failure, you know, the starting point for anyone achievement starts at he/she own hand,brain and guts to work hard.The rest we return to Allah s.w.t.

chow chincou bou chunlai lin dan lee chong wei..